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Friday, December 6, 2013

This is why....

I know it has been so LONG since I posted...I promise to give an update on our family soon...we are settling in and learning how to live now as a family of 7 in our house!  For now I want to share a post written by a dear friend of mine.  Their family is in the beginning stages of adopting 2 beautiful little girls rescuing them from life as orphans...  Amy really gives insight to WHY ....

In His Embrace,
laurie

 

Already in Our Hearts, Someday in Our Arms


Posted: 01 Dec 2013 03:08 PM PST
While preparing for the benefit concert, I was pulling together some statistics and wanted to share here.  Sometimes numbers can be so hard to comprehend---they are out of our realm of understanding the magnitude.  But each number below is a child---someone with a name and a story of their own, many times with much pain that is no fault of their own but often based on where and when they were born. Only by God's grace was I born in a country where my parents could provide for us and give us medical care and an education.  Only by His grace are we able to do the same for our children, never having to decide which child gets which meal (something the moms in Mekele, Ethiopia do daily), never having to wonder how to get medication for my children (other than which cupboard it is in), and never having to decide whether or not to turn my child into an orphanage because I know if I wouldn't they wouldn't survive.  When Jenny and I were in Ethiopia, we found out this is the reality for many of the moms/families there.  Thank You God for that opportunity and for opening my eyes to the need in the world.  Help me to always see ways You have for us to help others and also appreciate Your many blessings, the majority of which we take for granted.

As you read these statistics, try to think of the number as real children---here are pictures of some of the beautiful kids we met in Ethiopia--all who may fit into one of these "numbers" below---







Every day, 5,670 children become orphans.  That is 236 per hour. Almost 4 a minute.

Depending on what you read, the estimates of orphans in the world are 147-162 million children.  147,000,000  to  162,000,000 children.  Half the population of our country.  Each child with a story---each child desiring a family.

If the numbers of orphans were a country, orphans would be the 8th largest in the world!

95% of the world's orphans are over 5.  How many of these kids are overlooked because they aren't young!

In eastern Europe, less than 50% of the orphan population will live to see their 20th birthday.  In eastern Europe, of the orphans that survive their 20th birthday, 50% will end up in organized crime, drugs, or prostitution.

To look at these statistics in a different way, think of what you did in the last hour.

In the past hour---
1,667 children under the age of five died of malnutrition and vaccine-preventable diseases
1,625 children were forced to live on the streets by the death or abuse of an adult
600 children died of starvation
257 children were orphaned because of HIV/AIDS
115 children became victims of sex trafficking

Each of these children, fearfully and wonderfully made.  Each made in the image of God.  Each treasured by Him.

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Home at last.....

Colossians 3:1-4
Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.  Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.  When Christ, who is your[life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.
 
 
We are home!
So thankful to be home!
 
We left early Thursday morning, Bulgaria time and arrive late Thursday evening US time
We had some long layovers but the boys really did great!
 
Here is what they looked like during the 1st layover...6 hours  (without our stroller)
after getting up at 4am this was taken about 12noon.  
David on your left Jonathan (eyes heavy) on your right! 

 
 
 Then this is what things looked like 17.5 hours later!!! 
 
They were up for a total of 28 hours before we landed in Appleton, and only slept 2 of them on the plane...
They really did well.....probably better than Roger and I!
 
Yesterday we spent the day trying to get things in somewhat of an "order"...
just putting things away, catching up on laundry and being overly blessed with so much food in the house!  Thank you friends for you provision! We (I) so appreciate not having to think about food right now!  Especially with so many things to figure out as we go!  
I quickly realized that I did not have a lot of clothing for the boys....
I have lots for when they gain about 10 lbs. but for right now, not so much!
But the very generous and faithful families in our home school and adoption/foster care communities have once again come through!  I put an email out and got an amazing response! Thank you all for your generosity!  We are so thankful for each piece of clothing and the people who gave them!
  
 
The boys are doing pretty well.... all things considered...
they are now settling in to the 3 different place to sleep in 3 weeks.... they are learning how to "get what they want" by learning our faces and voices....they have no idea what they are dong here... 
I cannot imagine what is going through their minds....
But I know that God knows and He is faithful!
 
We take one day at a time...
Roger and I were talking about how much David and Jonathan really act and behave like a 2 year old.
and in some ways need the comforting of an infant......
like a gentle rub to the back when they wake up crying in the middle of the night...
or like today, getting up with Jonathan to rock him while David slept like a rock right through it!
we learned that they do not know how to suck....
they drink out of a cup but cannot do this on their own...
so we thought we would try a sippy cup..... and quickly realized that they do not know how to suck...
they are not potty trained as we were told...so we will packing diapers! again
(although I have to say they get all giddy and laugh when we change them....they think it is so funny when the cold wipe hits their skin....never saw that before!)
Roger said with a smile....huh, and I didn't want to go back to the "baby stage"......
Oh how much we think we get to choose in our lives.....
 
 
This morning I got to do something I haven't done in a long, long time!
Have a peek!
 
 
 
I got up with Jonathan and brought him down to rock in the living room!
After he slept in my arms for an hour I laid him on the couch...
My mind went back to 15 years ago when I was doing the exact same thing with Jacob and Sam!
I LOVED it!!
Then as I was doing devotions I looked over and this is what I saw!
How blessed am I?!
Right!!!


 
 I am so thankful I get to do this again!  I love it when time stands still with all that it takes to care for a little one! The days go by so quickly!  But those nights when all that is happening is right in your arms are treasures that fill us for a lifetime!
 
We ask for continued prayers for the boys adjustment....
for our bigger boys as well as our little ones....
 
We ask for prayers as we navigate through this time!
Thank you for walking this journey with us!
 
In His Embrace,
laurie
 
 

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Then and now....


We heard their story...
born premature at 29 weeks gestation
they spent the first 2 months in a hospital
then the next 3 years in an orphanage
and the last  9 months in a foster home
 
 
THEN.......
 
we first knew him as Brody
he was the smaller of the twins
just under 1lb at birth
many struggles just to stay alive
 
 
 
 
Then as Sevdalin
barely able to walk at 4 years old
weighing only 19 lbs.

 
In the care of a foster family 
gaining weight  25lbs.
walking alone  RUNNING
 
NOW.....
Our Jonathan Daniel


 
 
 
THEN........
Braddock
the name given for web viewing  
small little one having endured so much in a short life
weighing just 1.5lbs at birth
a fighter! a survivor!
 
Pavlin
minimal gains in spite of the place he lived
the medical report said he had a good disposition
 
 
 
gaining weight in the care of the foster family
25lbs.
running and climbing
 
NOW..........
 
our David Ezekiel


 
 
thanking the Father for HIS plans and HIS provisions
our guys are little....they are active and busy....they are full of life!
they are ours!
 
thank you for praying for them during this journey!
and thank you for helping to bring them home!
 
love to all
In His Embrace
laurie
 
 
 
 
 
 



 













Wednesday, November 6, 2013

David & Jonathan

 
Here is a picture of our two little rascals!
Hard to get many pics of them awake...
they never stop moving!
until they are sleeping.........
 
 
 
 

 

Got Me!

Gotcha Day!
 (trying to get a picture to load....)

It is such a neat catchy phrase....
but again, it is a day that has two extremes..
much happiness and joy and feelings of things being "completed"
but for another family things are just the opposite
much sadness and loneliness and feelings of things being "empty"
we are thankful for the love poured out on our boys over the past 9 months by this family
truly, they would not grieve if they did not love
 
 
We are in the beginning stages of a new beginning of our lives!
We are filled with anticipation of what will come next....
What will everything be like when we get home
What will the other boys say
How will David and Jonathan react when they see their new brothers and new home
Seriously....what will breakfast even look like
 
All of that is unknown but yet to come
We can't always know all that is coming...even if we know small parts
they are still just small parts to such a big picture
 
What we do know is what we need to know
All that we need to know will be revealed at just the right time
If there is only one thing I would say that I have learned on this journey it would for sure be
that God is never late and doesn't show up early!
He has every single piece of the plan in perfect order
 
Ephesians 1:3-14
 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.  For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love  he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—  to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.  In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace  that he lavished on us. With all wisdom and understanding,  he made known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure, which he purposed in Christ,  to be put into effect when the times reach their fulfillment—to bring unity to all things in heaven and on earth under Christ.
 In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will,  in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory.  And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit,  who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.
 
And when we get home He will have that all in place too!
 
 
If I can go back to "gotcha day"....
For me it is more of "it is official day"
Really gotcha for me was back in August of 2012
when I first saw these 2 little boys and they captured my heart
Honestly I did not know why at the time
but I knew that there was something God was pointing out to me
And it was then, as it is now, in perfect time
 
As I look back on the last year I can certainly see all of the places that
were marked specifically for intentional purposes by Him
I can see the "why" behind the waiting
I can see the plan unfolding into the absolute best for all of us!
So I can say with absolute assurance that He will always do what is best for us!
 
For all of us....
even for the family that grieves their little feet and big voices in their home
 
Our family is under the scrutiny of the ONE knows each star by name
and sees each sparrow that falls....
we can be assured that He is working out all things for good....
 
And it is good!
It really is!
 
In His Embrace,
laurie
 




Sunday, November 3, 2013

One More Sleep.....

just one more sleep until we will be reunited with our boys
it has been just over 1 year that this journey began
God had moved us off a different path and onto this one...
 
tomorrow we will leave early to drive for just over 2 hours
to be reunited with them for the last time
 
It is a bittersweet reunion....
as we are happy and leaving with them for a new beginning.....
there is a family that they will be leaving behind
a family that will have to say goodbye to these two special little boys
after almost a year of pouring love into these two boys they will be saying good bye
 
for whatever reason....God brought us together
two families over 5,000 miles apart
united by and through the Father
 
1 John 4:7-9
 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.  Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.  This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.
 
we talked about how never in our wildest dreams would we have guessed that we would
be where we are today
how 19 years ago when we got married more children were not a part of our plans...
we are often asked "why" we would be doing this....
even just a few days ago someone at the airport asked "what is wrong with you?"
 
we talked about how and why those kinds of things change...
only because we give up our own plans, perspectives and reasoning
and we now strive to live a life that reflects the plans, perspectives and reasoning of God
 
Ephesians 4:21-22
when you heard about Christ and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus.  You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds
 
All for His glory....
In His Embrace,
laurie

Saturday, October 26, 2013

You're Invited......

I'll bet  you are wondering why I am posting AGAIN!
In your wildest dreams you couldn't guess how the past week has gone....
where and how I have been spending my time...
 
BUT....
I have to pass along 2 invitations!
The first is more for the "locals"....
The second is for everyone!
AND please invite your friends to both!!
 
 
I am blessed to be a part of a ministry for Orphans!
ONE (Orphans Need Everyone) is a ministry that seeks to help, support and bring awareness to the cause and crisis of the orphan.  Caring, educating and supporting those caring for the orphan through Foster Care and Adoption. 
 
On November 2, 2013 they are having a benefit concert to support local families! 
You are invited!




Join us for an evening of new and old praise and worship songs performed by David Niemi and the Eastpoint Band. Gain insight and understanding into the world of adoption and foster care through the testimony of local families. Hear how God is working through their calling to care for children! Come early to meet families and browse items for purchase (Adirondack chairs, t-shirts, birdhouses, bathouses, cookie mixes & much more) to help them bring their children home!

Featuring David Niemi and the Eastpoint Band 
 
Saturday, November 2 , 2013
Concert from 6:00-8:15 pm (doors open at 5:30 p.m.)
Calvary Bible Church , 1450 Oakridge Road, Neenah, WI
No charge — a free will offering will be taken


Learn ……..
  •  firsthand from families currently or recently involved in foster care and adoption
  •  how you can help those involved in foster care through home placements, mentoring, respite, or service projects!
  •  about resources available to foster care families as well as adoptive families.
  •  about caring for the orphaned and abandoned children on a local and international level through adoption!
  • the numbers, facts and statistics about the orphan and what you can do to help!
  • about the harsh realities of human trafficking and how you can help bring hope to those        striving to succeed!
  • the truth about HIV and how many children are needlessly passed by for adoption because of false information!

Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:27
 
 
AND NOW
I invite you to enjoy this ....and do something!
THIS  is very near to our family!
thank you my sweet friend for this!
 
In His Embrace,
with so many others....
laurie